Is Your Mother Destroying Your Romantic Relationship?

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Many men and women are finding that its hard for them to be in a committed relationship because their mother won’t stop interfering in the connection. In many relationships today, family members seem to get in the way of a lover’s bond.  You may find that your mother is the hardest person in your life when it comes to love.

You may find that she is always criticizing the person that you are with and its not easy to please her. She may think that you are being mistreated or that the person you are with is not good enough for you. How can you get her to stop bothering you and destroying your relationship?

For starters, its important for you to have a one on one talk with her and let her know that its not okay for her to pass judgement on your relationship. After all, you are trying to make the relationship work out. It can be hard to have constant negativity around you.

It’s important for you to ask yourself what matters to you the most. If your lover is the most important person in your life, its important to show them that your mother is not going to run anything between the two of you. You need to give them this reassurance because they need to know that love is something that makes all the difference.

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It’s important to always put the person that you love first in your life. You need to always try and figure out what is going to happen in a way that makes you feel more at peace from within.

What if Your Mother Won’t Back Off?

After you have spoken to your mother about respecting your boundaries, its important for you to stick with your decision and let her know how important this is to you. If she continues to try and attack your relationship, its important for you to remind her that its not right for her to be doing this.

If she still refuses to stop “bashing” your lover, you need to back away from her completely. You are caught up in her spider web and she wants to try and control your every move. She has claimed you as her child and now believes that you must listen to her because she is your mother.

There is nothing worse than having a parent trying to control their adult child.  When you become an adult, you want to do what makes you feel happy and nobody knows you better than yourself.

You need to make it clear that this kind of behavior will not be tolerated. You must begin backing away from her and letting her know that its not okay what she is doing and its hurtful to feel what she is doing.

She will eventually get the message that you are cutting her out of your life until she changes. If she refuses to change, its important for you to keep her out of your life. It’s the only way to bringing inner peace to yourself.  If you refuse to give yourself peace of mind, you will never have it.

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When you are strong and work against negativity, it does tend to leave you. Once your mother has seen that you are in full control, she will learn how to back away from hurting you and your relationship.

Most mothers will start to pay attention when they feel that they are losing you as well. It’s hard to imagine that anyone would want to push their parent away.

However, a parent that is hurting you is always hurting the person that you are with. You don’t want to have problems with your romantic partner. This will only destroy your life and make you feel angry.

The angrier that you become, the more your partner will see that you are having bad days and won’t know why. This will make your relationship fall apart.

It’s important for you to work on what is going to work for you. You must also evaluate your own actions and see if you did anything to cause your mother to be meddling in your business so much.

Did You Cause Your Mother to Meddle in Your Love Life?

We are seeing a generation of young people today that want to depend on their mothers until they are well into their 30’s, 40’s, 50’s and beyond.  Children growing up in the 21st century are being taught to let your mother be involved in every aspect of your life. This is not always the best for adults.

Often, young adults are running to their parents to complain about their love life. They are often telling their mothers that the person that they are with is hurting them in some way.

When you tell your mother these kinds of things, she will respond negatively to the person that you are with long after your problem is over with. You plant a negative seed in the mind of your mother when you keep complaining to them about your love life.

You need to have several rules that you follow in life.  Some of these rules are:

  • Whatever you tell your family about your love, they will never forget it.
  • Even though you forgive your lovers mistakes, your family will not.
  • Family members will often remember the negative things over the positive about your lover.
  • If you run and tell your mother what the problem in your relationship is, they will grow to despise the person that you are with.
  • Your mother will always look out for your own best interests because she is your blood relative.
  • Don’t expect your mother to like the person that you are with if you talk bad about them.
  • Learn to talk to pastors and counselors about relationship problems. In this way, you can keep your relationship private and away from family members hating your lover.

People often don’t realize that they are the reason why their parent is not liking the person that they are with.  Your mother will often try to destroy your relationship when they feel that you are with someone that always makes you feel sad. 

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In order to change the views of your mothers’ opinions, it’s important that you speak positive about your lover.  Let them see that things are not as bad as you made it out to be. Let your mother know that you were just using her to vent to.

After all, if things were that bad, you would leave the person that is causing you so much pain and suffering. However, you want to stay because you are still getting something out of the relationship.

Mothers Can Be a Handful at Times

Yes, your mother will often say a mouthful to you about your relationship. She may even say that you always date someone that treats you bad.  She may remind you of every relationship that failed you in life. It is often hard to convince her to do something different.

If your mother is hurting you and causing you grief, its time for you to take a step back. Learn to listen to what is going on inside of you and follow your heart. 

Mothers don’t always understand that your relationship is not going to be perfect. It’s important for you to accept the fact that you may have had something to do with why she is not liking your relationship.  When this happens, know that it’s time for you to start over again and let her see that you do have some happiness inside of you after all.

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Mothers will often try to fight for their child’s happiness because they don’t want to see their child suffer. However, this is not always the best approach since children do have to grow up at some point and handle manners on their own.

Often, mothers will meddle into a child’s love life when they know something is not right. You need to reassure your parent that they don’t have to worry because you are handling your own affairs. 

Often, mothers will say what they feel for many different reasons.  Sometimes, children will say that there is something happening that is painful.  At times, there can be a lot going on behind the scenes and nothing always happens the way that we expect it to. 

Learning from Your Past Mistakes

Life is about learning and growing. Know that when you become an adult, you must handle your own problems and not talk about everything to your mother.

Your mother is wanting to always protect you. If you tell her to much of your personal affairs, she will feel the need to always meddle in your life. 

This is not always easy and sometimes you will feel that things continue to grow for you over time. Life is going to reach different stages of your existence. Life is often full of surprises no matter which way you go.  Learn to live with your mistakes and work with how to make them better.

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