I am a full-time psychic reader. The #1 mistake that I see women making all the time is with texting. Many women that call me for a love psychic reading tell me that they text their boyfriend/lover/friend with benefits several times a day. They often complain of him not texting back. The one thing that I have learned is that when a guy isn’t texting you back after the first text message, don’t keep on texting him.
Are You Texting Him to Much?
If you text a guy several times throughout the day and he is not responding, it means that he doesn’t want to be bothered. I don’t know about you, but I have had many busy days in my life. When I am at work and focusing on a project, I always give time to texting the people that I care about. It may be a short text, but it’s a text that lets someone know that I am doing okay.
A guy is no different. Sure, he has busy days. He may even tell you that the reason why he can’t text you back is because he is busy. However, busy often means that he doesn’t want to be bothered.
You may argue that he texts you back at a later point asking you to hook up with him or meet him out for some dinner. He may try to romance you when he is ready.
However, is this the kind of guy that you want to see yourself with? In today’s world, love is hard to find. Romantic relationships seem to come and go. However, begging someone to stay in your life is not the best way of finding your soulmate.
Should You Wait For Him To Text You Back?
If you text him one time, wait for him to text back. Yes, he got your text. No, he didn’t lose his phone. He is simply ignoring you.
It’s time for you to take charge of your life again. If this sounds like you, you’re not alone. Each year, millions of women around the world wonder why and when their man is going to be calling them. However, the more that you show him that you are desperate for a text by continuously texting him, the more he will not text you.
My grandmother told me when I was 16 years old to never chase a man. I can say that she is right. I see more women these days texting guys than ever before in history.
When I say texting, I am also saying calling or even showing up at his house. Grandma also told me that guys like a little bit of a chase. She always told me to never ignore him completely. However, don’t go chasing after him. If he isn’t calling you, then it means he doesn’t want to be bothered.
Should He Text First?
Grandma once told me that if I chased a guy, its because he thinks of me as being second best. I didn’t understand her words completely until I met a guy in my college dorm room. This guy was handsome as can be. He was fully stacked with muscles and I couldn’t believe he wanted me.
Every day, he would stop by my dorm room and ask me out for lunch, coffee and to hang out in his room to watch a movie. My romance with him lasted for around a year. He eventually moved to another state to attend a different university. However, he constantly called me. I hardly ever had to call or text him back. I knew that he wanted me. I never had to second guess him.
On another note, I met a guy after him that was not the same. He hardly ever called or texted me. I only got a text from him if he wanted some “booty” or to hang out and kiss. I was like, no way. I was over him rather quick. I tried texting him sometimes and he always said that he was busy or had some work to do. I eventually got tired of it and moved on.
I eventually realized that my grandmother was right after all. If you must chase a guy to hard, its because he isn’t that interested. When a guy wants you, you will know it. He will show you that he wants you and you will feel like he is ready for more.
Is He Simply Chasing Booty?
If he is simply chasing booty, you don’t want a guy like that in your life. Sure, he might be hot, but is this what you really want? If you are like me, you will want to have a guy snuggling up with you watching Netflix during the week. He should be a guy that calls you regularly so that you don’t have to wonder where he is at.
He should be someone that you trust and feel like he is growing closer together with you. Over time, you will come to see that having a guy like this around is actually and ego boost.
There is nothing worse than having a guy in your life that simply wants to make you feel less than worthy. I have been there and done that. You want to simply say, “I am not going to put up with a guy not texting me.”
You also don’t want to look like the “psycho” obsessed girl that is always wanting to get his attention. I reality, its best to show him that you have a loving heart that is wanting love. You simply want to chase away a guy that doesn’t show much.
I did date a non-affectionate guy one time. He was the kind of guy that would shower me with gifts. He wasn’t exactly my type, but I knew that he wanted me. I never had to guess. Every morning that I woke up, I would find a text message from him. It made me feel good to know that I was that wanted by someone.
If you want to test out what I am saying, I think that it’s a good idea to do so. Just focus on the guy that you really want to be with. Start a conversation with him to see what he is all about.
If the guy seems interested, tell him to text you so that you can arrange a date together. If he is not texting you, consider it a loss. I know that it can be lonely to be without a guy in your life. However, its much better than lying to yourself and feeling like something is wrong with you. Love will happen at the right moment.
If he is your soulmate, you will know it with time. I hope that you will take warning of why its not best to text so much. Hopefully, you will see that if he wants you, you won’t have to ask if he does.