You may have noticed that your boyfriend has been checking out guys lately. Perhaps you already knew that he was bisexual. Maybe you are just finding out about it right now. It’s important for you to learn how to accept him for who he is if you plan on staying together with him forever.
Many women today are finding out that the guy that they are in love with is into both guys and women. This may be hard for you to understand if you are completely straight. Perhaps your religious morals bother you about his sexuality as well.
It’s important for you to ask yourself if you are willing to be with a man that “swings both ways.” Can you accept him for finding other guys attractive?
Myths About Bisexual Men
Many women assume that if they are dating a bisexual man, then he cannot be faithful. He will always cheat on you with someone of the same sex. However, this is not true.
Most bisexual men desire love and monogamy in their relationship. Most bisexual men accept that they are attracted to both men and women, but often decide to choose one person to be with. This means that even if he were completely straight, he wouldn’t want to date or be with anyone else except for you.
It’s important for you to have a sit-down discussion with him about what your expectations are of him. You will feel a lot better having open discussions about whether you are comfortable with him dating someone of the same gender as he is while you are together.
You may be shocked to find out that he feels that his heart belongs to you and he doesn’t want anyone else but you. It’s important for you to always feel like you have your soulmate with you.
What If He Still Wants to Date Guys?
Some bisexual men decide that dating other guys is something that they still want to do. He may not be into having a monogamous relationship with only you. You may feel that he wants to be able to be together with you and others as well. There is nothing wrong with being with someone that wants to be together with you and someone else at the same time if you are willing to accept that.
Being bisexual today is a lot different than it was 30 years ago. Today, people are more accepting towards alternative lifestyles. You may ask yourself if you are ready to accept what he wants. You may even feel attracted to other women as well. Perhaps you are both bisexual in the relationship.
Setting ground rules, I the relationship is important for the two of you. It’s important for you to feel comfortable in the relationship that you are in.
The Flip Side
What if your man was completely straight? Does it mean that he would never cheat on you? Of course not. In every relationship, there is the possibility of someone going outside of the relationship because they either don’t want monogamy or can’t control their lustful desires. It may be hard for you to look at the situation for what it is.
Being honest with yourself and what works for you is important. Most women today say that they will accept their guy if they are willing to obey the rules in the relationship that are set by both people.
Just because someone has an attraction for the opposite or same sex should not make you feel like you are going to lose that person to someone else. Millions of women around the world are with bisexual men. They often have families and relationships that last a lifetime. It’s always important to have a serious talk when you suspect that your guy is attracted to other men.
Millions of men around the world are realizing that they are bisexual. We are living in a day in age where many men believe that they were born like this. It’s important for you to be honest with yourself and learn to love the person that you are with for who he is.
Having serious talks together will help you to see that you don’t have to be afraid of this side of himself. In fact, many women say that they want to be with someone that will always love them and grow with until old age.
Acceptance Takes Time
All relationships require acceptance and learning about the person that you are with. For some women, finding out that their man is bisexual is their issue. For others, it is finding out that their guy prefers working over love making. You will have troubles to work through in any relationship that you are involved in.
When you talk about what is on your mind with your life partner, you begin to feel a certain connection with the person that you are with a lot more deeply.
As you can see, you don’t have to be afraid of accepting him for who he is. Know that it will only allow him to love you more. He will want to tell you how he feels and what’s on his mind.