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Why Did My Soulmate Ghost Me?

Do You Need A Soulmate That Understands You?

Your soulmate can either make you or break you. It’s important to have a soulmate that truly understands you.  Sometimes, you can be in a relationship that is thriving at first. However, over sometime, the relationship begins to fade for one reason or another. 

Your soulmate may be ghosting you because they feel that you don’t care about them.  They also may feel that love is to hard for them to be involved with. They may not want to be with the same person forever.

Why Did My Soulmate Ghost Me?

You may be head over heals for your lover, but they may not feel the same way towards you. They may think of you as being someone that is here today and gone tomorrow. Sometimes, we can be our own worst enemy. 

Soulmates often ghost us when they feel that we are not fulfilling their needs. Perhaps you are contacting him/her to much. Often, soulmates feel like they are not getting or giving enough. 

If your soulmate is ghosting you, its best to back off.  Your significant other is clearly trying to tell you that they want space and prefer to keep things that way for a while.

If you are the kind of person that likes to test your significant other a lot, that is often a problem. The reason for this is because your soulmate often wants to be left alone.  You may find that its hard to give of yourself for various reasons. 

Should You Go After What Makes You Happy?

In life, you must go after what you feel is best for yourself.  You can’t control what another person is going to do all the time. The only thing that you can do is to try your best.

Sometimes, our soulmate is not always going to tell us what we want to hear.  We will often have to wait for them to tell us what they are both thinking and feeling. It’s okay to feel a sense of rejection. Yes, at certain times, you will feel that you are giving more to the relationship then you are getting in return.

Today, ghosting is becoming a serious problem.  You may recall several times in your life, someone ghosted you for no apparent reason. Perhaps things were going well and then out of nowhere, the person stopped talking to you. 

Sometimes, we can have an amazing connection with someone and then find that they are only pushing us away. 

Are You Texting Him To Much?

Many guys today feel like texting is to much for them to handle. Most men today say that they prefer talking with their significant other only once a day or several times a week.  The male and female brain think differently.

If you are a woman dating a guy that seems to be ghosting you, you are not alone.  It’s important to see that you can have a lover in your life that wants to feel that they have plenty of space.  It’s important to keep on mind that guys often want space more than women do. 

It’s part of our human nature to be who we are.  We can’t force someone to talk to us. When they are ignoring us, we often feel a sense of sadness. Nobody likes to feel that they are second best or not good enough. Therefore, it’s important for you to say that you can give of yourself to someone in time.

If your significant other is trying to push you away, take it as a hint that you might be giving to much of yourself in love. That can be hard to deal with. At times, you may have to take a step back and ask yourself if you can honestly give a person what they need by doing less.  As the saying goes, “Doing less is often doing more.” 

Do You Like Being Rejected?

Nobody likes to feel rejected. However, when we feel like the person that we are with is pushing us back, it’s time to reevaluate the situation. It’s time to ask yourself if you have been to much for them to handle.  If you are lonely, you may have to find multiple friends to be with. 

Clinging to our lover in love is often to hard for most men and women to handle.  Many times, we try to make our lover our entire world. We want to spend all our time with them because we have love emotions for them. However, what we feel for them may not be what they feel for us.

Many lovers often feel that they don’t want to give someone themselves completely.  They may feel that they want to have a life outside of you. They may want to have many friends and visit with their family without you. Know that this is okay. 

Some people in this world don’t like to feel smothered or like they must give themselves to someone all the time. 

We live in a world with many different personalities.  Some men and women feel that they function better seeing their Significant other only once a week. 

This may be hard for you to understand if you are the opposite.  You may be the kind of person that wants to talk with your lover multiple times a day. However, if they are ghosting you, they are clearly trying to tell you to leave them alone. 

Should You Take Ghosting Personal?

When you feel like you are being ghosted, don’t take it personal.  In fact, your lover is just trying to send you a message that they are feeling smothered by you. You may not even realize that you are smothering them.

A simple rule to follow is that if you are texting them and they are not texting you back, don’t keep on texting them.  Most of all, don’t stalk their social media to see if they are trying to post something about you or other aspects of your life.

If you bring up the fact that you are “scoping” out their social media, they may get freaked out by you. There is such a thing as giving someone privacy. 

If you are dating someone that doesn’t want you to look at their phone because they have something on there that they don’t want you to see, then respect their boundary. They are trying to tell you that they need privacy.  Never violate something that is meaningful to someone else. 

Should You Read Your Daily Horoscope?

It’s always a good idea to read your daily horoscope as well. It will often lead you to a conclusion to take care of your own life base on your own astrological chart. You will come to see that it helps to guide you along the way. 

You can often find yourself getting lost in your horoscope because there is so much there to teach you. Reading about your lovers’ horoscope will also give you an awareness of who you are as a person and who they are as a well. You can see how the two of you pair together. You can find books easily by going to and checking out some of their books on astrology. 

It’s always important to pay close attention when someone is trying to give you the message to back off.  We live in a society today that doesn’t like or want confrontation.  People will often shake your hand and then never speak to you again if they see you in public.

Maybe they didn’t like you for some reason. They won’t say it to your face. However, they will simply ignore you. Yes, ghosting is a horrible thing. I admit that I have been ghosted myself several times and its not a good feeling. 

What Does Being Ghosted Mean?

Being ghosted simply means that we are going to try and do what we can in order to find our own path next time. This means that we are going to have to try hard to stay more focused on what is most important in life. I find that learning more about the person that we are helps our lover to see who we are as all. 

Remember, ghosting in a relationship is normal. It simply means that the other person is saying to leave them alone for now. Take the hint and wait for them to contact you back.  Once that happens, you will have a green light to make the relationship come back together again for you. 

In life, you must remember to go after what you truly believe to be important. Know what you are up against and try to change your life for the better.

If you are truly meant to be with your soulmate, your relationship will work for you. Don’t worry because every relationship needs to grow from time to time. Sometimes that will include ghosting along the way. Know that you can easily learn how to combat this by taking your time to think about what will work out best for yourself.