The guy was so cute, and you just had to have him. He had the looks that made you feel attracted to him. However, time has now passed by and you realize that the is not the brightest man in the world. What to do? Do you keep him or dump him? Its going to be a hard decision to make.
Its never easy to be with a guy that doesn’t meet you on an intellectual level. Maybe you are more cultured and like talking about deep topics that he doesn’t seem to get. Perhaps you know much more than he does, and it come to a point in which you no longer find your conversations appealing. Perhaps you feel that e gives you love, but you feel bored in the relationship. The only thing that you look forward to is your intimacy.
This happens a lot more than most women would like to admit. If you don’t do something about it now, you are going to live your life in misery. You must either accept that he is not that intelligent or find a way in which you can make the love work despite the boredom that you are feeling.
If he is open to going to school or reading books to make himself smarter, the connection may not be as bad. It’s important to let him know how you feel for him. Let him know that love is something that you both need in the relationship. You need to encourage him to talk about topics that interest you. If he doesn’t know much about the topic, you should encourage him to learn. If he refuses to learn, you may see this as a deal breaker.
Some guys simply don’t want to become smarter. They may be comfortable with who they are. However, if you are not comfortable, then its time to create a change.
Unfortunately, his good looks will only get you so far. After that, you need to have someone that you can have stimulating conversations with. You will come to feel alone in your relationship if he is not on the same level with you intellectually.
This is not about judging your boyfriend’s intelligence. Instead, it is all about being real with yourself and seeing if he is the kind of person that does make you feel empowered every single day.
If you are having a conversation about things that don’t interest you, the love relationship will become boring. The two of you are going to feel like you can make the relationship come together on your own. It’s all about taking things one step at a time.
Its hard to imagine yourself walking down a road and not feeling like your partner is your soulmate. Often, we discover that someone is not on the same mental level as us after the sexual intimacy is over with.
If you feel that he is the kind of guy that is good hearted and loving, that is great. However, there does come a time in which you need to decide on whether you can be in a relationship with someone that doesn’t understand what you are talking about half of the time.
You will find out that as you walk through life, there will be some people that you click with and don’t click with. There is nothing wrong with you or them. You simply must ask yourself if you want to be with someone that is appealing to you. Learning to listen to your own heart is something that does matter to you on many different levels.
It’s something that you feel is important in your life. If you think about it, life can be challenging at times. Learning how to listen to your own heart is something that will make you feel a sense of empowerment.
In order to break away from the relationship, its important to have a conversation with your boyfriend. Be honest and let him know that you don’t see the two of you working out in the long run. You can tell him that you don’t see the two of you having much in common. You can also tell him that you have tried hard to make the relationship work out, but its no longer working for you.
At times, you will feel bad about breaking his heart. However, if you make the mistake of keeping him, you will regret it later down the road. You will feel like the problem never goes away and he simply makes you feel unhappy. It’s understandable that you don’t feel a sense of love for him for many different reasons. It’s understandable that you are on one side and he is on the other.
Relationships can be complicated. They are often complicated because couples don’t talk about the deep-rooted issues within the relationship.
Every relationship will have its ups and downs all the time. You need to only look at yourself and feel like you have tried. If you try to make something work and it doesn’t work despite all your efforts, you can’t blame yourself. You simply have to say that it didn’t work and now its time to move on.
Couples break up every single day for different reasons. The fact that you are breaking up because you don’t see eye to eye does say a lot. You simply must think about your life and feel like you can do things that make you feel a sense of happiness and peace. In life, we all must see that we can continue to learn and grow with time.
Life is never fair, and your boyfriend may be upset with you about the breakup. However, its better to be honest with yourself. After all, you don’t want to destroy your own life because you feel bad about hurting him.
As the saying goes, you must look out for #1. If you don’t, then nobody else will. You need to always feel satisfied with your relationship and grow with someone that is on the same level as you are.