Straight but Feeling Lesbian Feelings for A Friend for The First Time

If you are a straight woman and having girl crush feelings on a friend, does this mean that you may be bisexual or simply not completely straight? 

In today’s world, many women are beginning to feel more empowered about their sexuality.  It’s becoming more obvious that not every woman is completely straight.  What happens when you have a girl crush on your friend, and they think that you are completely straight?  How do you talk to them about it and how and should you tell them? 

It’s hard to be around someone that you feel a lustful desire for.  You may think that they would see you as being someone that is their friend only. However, you may have never felt this way before about anyone else. However, when you are around your friend, you feel like you want them.  Perhaps you are not even looking for love. You may want a man as a boyfriend and then have a fling on the side as your friend.  This happens a lot more today than most people realize. 

It’s important to know that your friend may or may not feel this way about you.  If she is open minded like you, she may be feeling the same exact thing.  She may have felt attracted to you as well when she first met you.  She may have never thought about having a lesbian affair with you because you are supposed to be “just friends”. However, many girlfriends are starting to reveal to one another that they have a girl crush on them. 

Should you pursue the girl crush or just leave it alone?  This is a decision that you will have to make based on your own personal morals and the risk of losing a friendship. 

Once you cross the line of just being friends into something that is a more than friends, it gets messy. Just ask anyone that has a friend with benefits type of relationship. 

You may feel that you want to be with someone that will want you in the same way.  However, your friend may not feel the same way about you. 

In order to find out if they are into you in a sexual way, its important to ask them how they feel about lesbians and bi-sexual types of relationships. In this way, you can get a rough idea as to whether you should cross the line with them.  Not everyone is going to be open to bonding together with you in a sexual way even if they are on the same page as you are. 

You may be shocked to find out that the relationship will be better off staying a friendship.  No matter how much you want the relationship to be something more, it may not always be what is best for you. 

In today’s world, relationships tend to move so far.  Experimentation is part of who we are.  We often want to know if the crushes that we have with others is because we are truly wanting them for something much deeper. 

Many women in the world have a lesbian crush on their straight girlfriend and do nothing about it at all. Many women will often compliment one another. They may say that this woman looks good and leave it at that. 

Human sexuality today is more complex than it ever was before in history.  This is mainly because people today feel a lot freer to express themselves and what they want in their lives. 

If you have someone in your life that you would like to go down this road with, its important to not feel alone. You may need to talk to someone from the LGBT community about how you feel. It’s important to get yourself connected with other women that understand where you are coming from.

You can also ask them questions about what they would do if they were in your shoes. You may be shocked to learn that many of these women have been in a similar situation such as yourself.

They may have good advice to give to you. You will also hear stories about relationships working and not working for most women. 

Many women today feel that love is hard to get no matter if you are gay or straight.  You may find that through your lesbian experience that you are not gay either. You may feel that this is just a one-time crush on another woman. This happens more often then what people want to talk about.  If this sounds like you, you are not alone. 

Many women feel today that they are not a lesbian but wouldn’t mind having a one-night stand with their best friend. Perhaps the relationship is full of love, bonding and attraction for one another. 

If you feel that a lesbian connection with your friend is what you need, its okay to at least let them know how they feel for you. You should get a good indication that your crush should be developed more or simply let lose. 

After talking with your friend about how they feel for you, you may find that they are into you and want more.  You may find that they have no interest in you in that kind of way. This will not only relieve the tension that you have been feeling for them. It will allow you to see that you need someone in your life that will be there for you later as well.

You need to see what kind of person you are and eventually come to see what will work for you and what won’t work for you. You should never be ashamed of who you are as a person. Simply think about what will work for you and then progress with it.  You will soon come to see that many other women are just like you. 

Now that you have some idea of your lesbian feelings, its best to start making some decisions on how you plan to go about it.

Twin Flame Writer

I have been writing horoscopes since I was in high school. I enjoy learning about astrology and teaching it as well. I am a believer in love and soulmates. I find that people often enjoy learning about psychics as well. My goal is to write articles that are helping for people.

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