Is Your Twin Flame Married to Someone Else?
Here’s the scenario: You’ve met your twin flame, your soulmate to end all soulmates, your literal other half. If you’ve met your twin flame, then you likely already know exactly what it feels like.
The first time you two locked eyes, you could sense that this person was not only meant to be with you, this person was actually a part of you. It probably felt like finding the final piece of a puzzle you’ve been working on for years. And ever since you met your twin flame, you can’t stop thinking about them. You feel as if the universe itself wants you two to be together.
Except there’s one problem.
Your twin flame is married- and not to you.
Your twin flame may seem happy in their marriage. They might even have kids. But if this person is truly your twin flame, then they are likely in as much agony as you are. If you feel like every day is a torture because you are not yet united with your twin flame, then your twin flame certainly feels the exact same way.
But of course, in today’s society, we are taught to stay in a marriage, even an unfulfilling one, at all costs. Your twin flame might seem happy in their marriage, but they have been taught to wear a mask, to pretend to be happy in their current situation. But under that mask, your twin flame is consumed with the thought of being with you, just as much as you are with them.
You may be wondering, if the person you thought was your twin flame is already married to someone else, how can you be destined to be together? Twin flames being separated by other relationships is actually more common than you think. These other relationships, however, are not the end goal; ultimately, you two are destined to be together. This other marriage or relationship is simply one more journey in life, but it won’t last forever.
The world’s staggering divorce rates are no secret. In the U.S. alone, 50% of marriages end in divorce. Just because your twin flame is married to someone does not mean they are destined to be together forever. We all learn lessons from the relationships we have throughout life, and this marriage is merely another lesson to learn before you can both be united.
That’s all well and good, you may say, but what can I do about it? When dealing with the heartache caused by watching your twin flame live a (seemingly) happy life with someone other than you, there are a few steps you can take.
The first step you should take is to assess whether or not this person truly is your twin flame. It is likely, of course, that you’ve already done a lot of research on this subject, and you might even be tempted to skip this step- but please don’t! It is extremely important that you are 100% sure this person is truly meant to be with you before you take any other steps.
Here are some of the key signs pointing to whether or not someone is truly your twin flame:
The moment you met each other, you knew you had a connection.
You may have only just met this person, or maybe you have known them for years. Either way, the phrase “love at first sight” applies to you, except perhaps even deeper. When you first met each other, you felt as if you had already known this person all your life. This is because a twin flame is someone who is actually a part of you; you come from the same soul, split in two, and you have known each other all your lives, even if you’ve only met in person once.
Are You Connected On More Than One Level?
Not only do you feel a romantic connection with this person, but you are also connected in other ways. Maybe you are coworkers, or you both engage in the same hobby or passion together. Twin flames are much more than a romantic couple; they are deeply bonded with one another in a multi-faceted relationship. If this person also feels like a best friend to you, this is another sign you are twin flames.
Are You Like Yin and Yang?
While this person shares all of the same hopes and dreams as you, this person also balances you out perfectly. Your strengths and weaknesses equal out so wonderfully that, when you’re together, you become one perfectly joined being.
Can You Read Each Other’s Minds?
No, I’m not talking about actual mind-reading here, but you two definitely have a higher sense of one another. You may find that you finish each other’s sentences, or can pick up on each other’s moods even when others around you cannot. When you are together, it feels as though you are always on the same page.
You End Up In Eachothers Company a Lot
Even if you two weren’t planning on meeting up, you may run into one another frequently. At the grocery store, walking downtown, in the local coffee shop. It seems like you two are drawn together, and you may be inclined to write it off as coincidence, but in your heart, it feels like it was meant to happen.
You are Both Surrounded By Uncanny Responses
Twin flames are not brought together by chance. Keep an eye out for themes, numbers, and words that seem to keep popping up between you two. Maybe you met on an oddly perfect date (like 11/11/11, for example), or you seem to run into each other at the same time. This is a big sign that you two are twin flames; there is a perfect synchronicity between your relationship and the universe.
Once you are absolutely certain this person is your twin flame, your next step is to simply wait. I know this may be painful, even agonizing, but at the end of the day, this marriage was not built to last. If you two are truly meant to be together, then the relationship your twin flame is currently in cannot last forever.
Eventually, your twin flame’s unhappiness will cause the cracks in their marriage to appear, and sooner or later, that marriage will fail. Waiting may be the most painful option when dealing with this kind of situation, but it’s also probably the safest if you want to avoid causing too much trouble.
If you have already been waiting for a long time, or if it simply becomes too painful for you to wait any longer, it may be time to move onto the next step. Try and spend more time around your twin flame. Look for more opportunities for you two to hang out, either alone or in gatherings. From there, you can start dropping (subtle) hints.
Find ways to bring up the subject of soulmates in casual conversation. This word alone will probably be enough to prick your twin flame’s ears in interest. Even if they haven’t researched the subject of twin flames, everyone has heard of a soulmate.
While the terms aren’t exactly interchangeable, your twin flame has probably already begun wondering if you two are actually meant to be together. By casually reminding them about this in casual conversation, your twin flame will probably begin to give the subject some more thought.
However, it is important to be patient. Many twin flames have a tendency to dance around one another for years before they are truly united. At the end of the day, it is important to let one another learn the karmic lessons the universe has to offer before you try and force yourselves to be together.
As you can probably already feel, your relationship is bound by the universe itself, and all good things in life are worth waiting for. Even though you may feel impatient, upset, or even depressed by your current separation, keep in mind that you are two halves of the same whole, and you are destined to be united.
While your twin flame may feel trapped by their unfulfilling situation right now, your presence will likely be enough to make them realize just how unhappy they truly are.
Meeting one’s twin flame for the first time is usually enough to make someone who is already in a relationship question whether that relationship is really what’s best for them.
The presence of a twin flame is an irresistible pull in your heart, and even if your twin flame is trapped by the logic of staying bound in a marriage, their heart’s call will ultimately win them over.
As with all aspects of fate, however, you cannot rush the path you are currently on. Ultimately, you have to learn to surrender yourself to the universe and let it take control. Let yourself live freely, and one day, you and your twin flame will find yourselves united, as was meant to be.