Is Love Beautiful?
What happens when you fall in love? How will you know and how will you feel? Falling in love is like a roller coaster,there is going to be ups and downs but the ride is worth it. Some people expect butterflies in the stomach or all hearts and roses but true love is magical.
There is no step by step for falling in love but you will have no doubts about being in love. Your spouse will be your best friend, the one that you confide in and tell your secrets to. Your spouse will be the one you cry with, laugh with and the one will support you when you need them.
Personally, I believe that before you fall in love with someone that you have to love yourself and be happy with yourself. You have to have the self confidence in yourself to know what you are worth and not to settle for anything less.
Don’t let any person make you feel unworthy of love or disrespect you.. Everyone is worthy of love and deserves to be respected. When you truly love yourself then you can fall in love with someone else.
For some people, falling in love will be hard and fast. They will meet someone and instantly feel the instant attraction and just know that this is the person that you are suppose to spend your life with. You can see growing old with this person, having a family and look forward to spending your life and time with them.
For others, falling in love will take more time. This could be for several reasons, there could be trust issues to overcome or being shy. You will meet some one and want to get to know then and see what happens and if the other person has the patience to her you overcome what ever issue there is. When you have over come what ever issue there was then you will have an unbreakable bond with your spouse.
Your spouse should be be your best friend. The person that you know, no matter what happens will be by your side. The person will see you at your best and worse and still love you through everything.
You have to trust your spouse and be able to tell them everything that you are feeling without feeling ashamed. Your spouse will be the shoulder that you cry on and the person to life you up when you are down and do the same in return. There is a level of respect that you show each other that is highly respected among you two.
Are you wanting to spend all the time with a certain person? When you get good or bad news, you want to tell this person? The sight of this person makes you smile and happy?
I would say that you are falling in love. This person will have a way of making you feel like the only person in the world that matters to them. They will do everything in their power to make you smile and feel their love. You will never doubt their love. This will give you a special feeling and it will shine on your face every day.
Some say that love is blind and that you will do anything for love but I do not believe that. I believe that if you are truly in love that your spouse will never ask you try to make you do something that you are not comfortable with. Some people may not understand your love but that is their issues and you need to follow your heart and love.
I have personally been in this situation and the people that didn’t understand can now see the difference my love as made in me and are now happy for me.
Love can change a person, if it is true love then the change will be for the best. True love will fill you with happiness and joy. You will be able to see the good and the bad in a person and still feel nothing but love and compassion.
True love can make you a better person, friend and family member. True love will show you how to be uplifting and loyal even when times are hard. True love will make the good times even better and more special. If you are changing for the worse then it is not true love.
In case you are wondering, yes, I am in love. I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years and have been so much but are still going strong because of the respect that we have for each other.
We both have PTSD and trust issues so there was a lot of issues for us to overcome together. We both had to learn to trust the other, it was hard but I believe that he is my soul mate and the one that I am suppose to spend my life with.
We have or differences but we respect each other and our beliefs. We have both have grown since we have been together but I believe we have both grown for the better.
I have been cheated on before my boyfriend so rust was a big issue that I had t overcome, it was hard but my boyfriend was there for me and showed me his love everyday. He was there for me when my trust was waving to show me that he truly loves me.
Things are not always perfect when you are in love if you can talk to your spouse and always be open minded. There are times to compromise and times to just let go. You have to know what is important to you and what you are willing to compromise and what not.
Falling in love will teach you how to compromise and be understanding. There will be a time when you and your spouse will have a disagreement. This will be the time when you have listen, understand and compromise when need be.
You both have to be able to talk to each other without worrying or being scared. You both have to be able to understand the other even if you don not believe the same thing. This will make your love stronger and able to handle anything that life throws at you.
Falling in love is not something that you are ready for but happens when you need it the most. When you are not looking for it, and when you think everything in your life is just the way you want it. Love will catch you off guard and then blow you away.
Love is worth every up and down there is. There is nothing better than the highs and nothing can keep you in the lows. If you have true love then there will be more highs than lows. You will be about to shows your family that you believe in love and it is worth it.
There is not step by step on falling in love because everyone is different and every love is different. Some people fall fast and hard while others fall slower and with their eyes wide open.
Some are easy to love while others are harder, There is no one way to love or how to love. Love varies from person to person. No one can tell you how you feel but there are some things that can help you to know. Your spouse should be your best friend and the that you know is always there for you no matter what.
Love is kind, caring, understanding, compromising and fun. This does not mean that love is always good. There is bad times that will test your love and how you handle the bad times will make the good times either better or worse.
If you remember what love is and use those tools then the good times will out number the bad and make everything life your life better. Falling in love is one of the scariest and best things that ever happened in my life.
I believe that when I fell in love with my boyfriend that changed for the better. With him in my life, I now know what true love is and how it feels. I believe that has made a better person because I now try to view every situation with an open mind and always try to understand how people feel and just a happier person in general.
My sister has told me that I look and seem so much happier and she says its all because of my boy friend and the love he has given me. This has deepened my love for my boy friend and made our relationship even stronger.
Are you falling in love? The easiest and best answer to this is,did you find someone that makes you smile, happy and makes you the best version of yourself that you can be?
Then the answer is yes,you are falling in love. Just remember, love is not always perfect but love is always going to be there and will make the roller coaster worth the ride. Love gives you the one person that you can spend your life with,grow old with and be your best friend. Your spouse will be your strengthen when you need it and your sun on gloomy days.