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40 Years Old: Women Finding It Hard To Find Available Straight Men

40 Years Old: Women Finding It Hard To Find Available Straight Men

Is Age Only A Number?

Television and other media outlets tell us that age is only a number.  Many women walk through life feeling beautiful in their 20’s.  When they reach their late 20’s’, they often go into panic mode if they are not married or with a long-term partner. Women often wonder if they will ever find true love. Secretly, women know that their beauty is often at their strongest points when they are in their teens and twenties. The older you get, the less desirable you become to men. 

Nobody can control when or if you will find love.  If you are 40 years old now, you probably feel like love may have passed you by.  Every guy that you meet seems like he only sticks around for a few days, weeks, or months. You wonder if its you or perhaps not your time to meet Mr. Right. 

It is important that you do not get down on yourself.  After all, you are a true seeker of love. However, love often does not seem like it is friendly to you. It can be devastating to feel like nobody wants you. You may tell your friends and family that you are not into love or perhaps on a break between relationships. However, the other side of you is in deep pain. You crave love and yet no man seems to want you. The truth of the matter is that its true, you have passed your prime. 

By nature, men are extremely visual and picky when it comes to your physical appearance.  Men may tell you that a woman’s personality is more important to him than her looks. However, you know that truth and have been around the block a few times to know that most men in their 40’s are wanting younger women in their 20’s and 30’s.  You often wish that you could go back in time and have that same sex appeal that you once had.  You desire it deeply now in your life and yet it seems like you will only keep on aging.

Why Do Men Prefer Younger Women?

No matter how old a man gets, he envisions himself being able to have children with a woman. Of course, there are exceptions to every rule. Some men do not want to have children. However, this is not most men.  This means that your pool of men is going to be even harder. 

Men often like to feel that he has more chances to have a baby with a younger woman. Women in their 40’s will have a much harder time conceiving and giving him a child. Also, men want to see young skin.  Perhaps therefore woman’s cosmetics is a multibillion-dollar industry.  Women are always trying to look younger. Every woman knows that the younger you look, the more appealing you will be to a man. 

Men today are not like the men of the 1980’s and 1990’s. Many guys today do not care if they are 40 and have a 20-year-old girl on their arm. He takes pride in that and looks at himself as being “the man”.

Men are blessed to be able to impregnate a woman at any age.  He can be 60 and having his first child with a 30-year-old woman. Life is not fair. Women are often rushing to get married before their 30th birthday.  They often want to feel like they will have a man for the rest of their life that will grow old with them. They want to feel happy and secure. She wants to be able to give her youth to a man that will cherish her when she is 80.  This is the dream of almost every woman today. 

40+ Year Old Men Often Prefer Women That are 20 To 35 Years Old

Men that are in their 40’s often say that they are not looking to marry a 40-year-old woman.  Unfortunately, he will often think of a 40-year-old woman as being a booty call or someone that he is going to date for a few months and then toss aside when a younger woman comes along. That is the truth. It makes a 40+ year old woman feels like she is being used.

Most women in their 40’s know that they are in heavy competition with a younger woman. However, how can she compete with a woman half her age? What can she bring to the table that a younger woman cannot?

Many successful 40-year-old women often try the sugar mama route. You try to land a younger man like 40-year-old men are doing with women. However, you soon come to realize that the 40-year-old men are getting married to younger woman.

However, your younger man is often willing to give you sex, but not willing to give you his heart in marriage. He prefers a younger woman than you because he can envision himself having a family of his own and he knows that you cannot give that to him.  He knows that if he is with you, he may never have a child  or perhaps lose interest in you because your skin will become more saggy and eventually, he will see you as looking rather old.  That is a woman’s worst fear. It is also a real fear that happens today in mainstream society. 

How Can You Find Love At 40 If Most Men Are Not Looking For Real Love With Someone Your Age?

For starters, stop wishing that you were younger.  You cannot turn back the clock. You cannot be 17 again like Zac Efron in the movie.  Instead, you must realize that your time for bearing children may not be as easy as a younger woman. You must realize that you may not have the same sex appeal as a 20 or 30-year-old. However, what you can give a man is your life wisdom, love, spirituality, and companionship. 

Believe it or not, most 40-year-old men do not crave intimacy as 20 and 30-year-old men do. They often want to “do it” a lot less often than younger men. They simply do not feel as horny as they did when they were younger.  Eventually, the younger woman will see this and realize that she may be better off with a man her own age.  Yes, the older man can probably give her more material support and provide a better income than a younger man.  However, women want to feel desired by her man. She wants to know that he really wants her intimately and passionately. 

You need to know that when you meet a man, you may not be able to turn him on as much as you were able to when you were 20.  You may remember that all the guys wanted you when you were younger.  You may have had a firm tight body and you felt like every man was asking for your phone number. However, you are now in a position in which you never thought that you would be. Your 40, scared, alone and feel like your time for love may be over with. 

I am a firm believer in prayer. It is important for you to ask God for help.  You are going to need a miracle to bring a man into your life that will love you forever. It is important to learn more about fasting for a breakthrough.  God often answers prayers when we fast and pray.   If you ask God for help, he will help you. 

If you are 40+ years old, you have already been through a series of relationships that have probably upset you. You never thought that you would be in this position. You often wonder if you will become the next cat lady on the block. 

To find love again, you will need to become that 20-year-old girl that you once were. No matter how old you get, you will realize that men want to be the head of the household (relationship) and have the woman submissive to him.  Despite what you have learned from the feminist movement, men are not on board with a woman being equal to a man.  If you want to hear more truth, keep reading. If not, you are welcome to leave this article. I am here to lay down the truth to you and let you know that its still possible to land a man.

Another reason why men prefer younger women is that he feels she will often look up to him.  He wants to feel that he can coach the woman of his dreams and make her feel that she can count on him for money, love and taking care of her needs.  Women in their 40’s have been around the block a few times.  She often is independent and already has an established career. Men at this age do not feel as needed.  Most men feel that he can lose his masculinity with an older woman.  Women in their 40’s also take a lot less garbage from a man than a younger woman would. Her life experiences have taught her to be more independent. 

Sure, men will tell you to your face that he is all about the woman’s liberation movement. He may tell you that all people are equal, regardless of them being a man or woman. However, in your heart you know that he is lying.  You sometimes wish that you can become that young naïve girl again and depend on your man to show you the ropes in the world. Perhaps you can remember a relationship when you were younger.  You had a man in your life that you were submissive to.  He may have hurt you, but when you first met, you felt that you relied on him so much.  This was your first taste of true love. 

Has Feminism Ruined Your Chances At Love?

For many women in their 40’s, feminism has ruined your chances at love. In your heart, you know that men do not want to feel like a woman is going to control the relationship.  He does not want to hear you making him feel that you are the one in control. Most 40-year-old women today want to have a relationship that is equal. However, most men do not. Most men want to feel that you are going to be submissive to him. The closer that you get to a man, the more that you will realize that he wants you to listen to him. He wants you to have a voice if it does not overtake his own.  

You want to believe that he is going to treat you as an equal in the relationship. However, the Holy Bible and other sacred texts of various faiths has taught him from a child that he must be the one leading the woman in love.  He does not want to feel that you are his equal.  Even if he is not religious, this is engrained in a man’s mind from the time he was a boy.  He is supposed to grow up to take care of a woman and his children.  He is called out by society to be the “man”. He is meant to make a lot of money so that he can provide for his family. If he does not earn a good living, society will down upon him. 

If a man tells you that he lives at home with his mother, you will mostly look down on him.  Why is he living at home with his mama at 40?  Why does he not have a place of his own? You want to feel that a man can take care of you or at least be an equal partner. 

Men that are 40+ years old often feel that women that are 40+ are higher maintenance.  You expect more out of him since he is older. You do not expect him to be acting like a 20-year-old. You want to feel that he can take care of you.

Feminists want you to become a powerful woman that does not need a man in your life to take care of you financially. However, if you follow feminism rules, you will become the cat lady.

Statistics show us that by the year 2030, only 30% of all men worldwide will want to marry.  The other 70% will not care about marriage.  It is mainly because of a breakdown of obeying religious church laws and because most men feel that women are not feminine enough. 

Most men today complain that they do not feel like women are allowing them to be men.  Most women today are texting and chasing men as though they were the man.  These women certainly do not have a submissive to the man mindset. 

Most women today are being raised by parents that are telling them to be independent. This man works for them in friendships and in work. However, in love, it is failing women drastically.  Women today are feeling more lonelier today then they did a generation ago. 

Most women today feel like they cannot hold onto a man for long. Women are spending billions of dollars a year calling psychics and astrologers in hopes that they will show them where to look for a man that will always want to be together with them.  They dominate the psychic industry by 90% of all callers.  Men are not relying on psychics to help them find love. 

Can You Unlearn Everything That Feminism Has Taught You?

To win a man in your 40’s, you will need to learn to let a man pursue you.  Never think that you are his equal because men do not think that way.  In his mind, he knows that society demands that he takes care of you financially and to be the “man” of the relationship. Whether you like it or not, this is what society has taught him. It has been like this since the beginning of time when he was created in the Garden of Eden.

Before the 1940’s, women believed that she was supposed to be submissive to the man. Women born before the 1940’s were often able to hold onto men for 30+ years.  They knew how to keep a man and to also make him feel like man.  The biggest problem today with modern women is that they forget how to be a lady and let the man take charge. Think I am talking to old fashioned?  Think again.  Men today are not marrying women as they once did in previous generations. Men often complain that women today do not make them feel like men.  They often feel that women are trying to be controlling and to dominating in love.

Most men today feel that its better to live alone and just hook up with the woman of his choice when he wants some intimacy, romance, children, and company.  Men are finding that they cannot be in a relationship with the same woman for more than a year. Most men will break up with their wife/girlfriend in under 5 years. It is estimated that most marriages will fail 65% of the time.  Experts are predicting that it will only become worse over time. Think that feminism is winning? You better believe it.

The dating world is proving that women in their 40’s are most likely going to end up alone forever unless they go back to old school basics.  As hard as it is to accept, you must study how the woman born before the 1940’s was able to hold onto their men for decades.  They competed against younger women as well.  However, their men did not want to leave them. 

Perhaps you had a grandmother or great grandmother that was married for 40 or 50 years.  That is a miracle for you today because you may ask, “How did grandma do it?” 

For starters, grandma was a submissive woman to her husband.  Her husband loved and respect her because she respected him.  Yes, their marriage was not perfect, but they made it work for decades.  Grandma knew how to keep him wanting her more. She worked hard in the relationship and often bit her tongue to avoid criticizing him.  She knew what his weak points were.  She never wanted to act like she was the “man” in the relationship. 

During the 1970’s a major boom of divorces started to come into effect.  The feminism movement was on the rise and women began to feel more of a sense of liberation.  Today, this mentality has turned on women. Women are facing more loneliness now than they ever were before in previous generations. Women are trying to figure out what the problem is now. Why don’t men want to stay with them for life? Why won’t men commit anymore? Why could grandma keep her man and you cannot? Why are you 40 and alone?

What Can You Do Now?

As you can see, you may have a lot of feminist traits. You may not even know that you have them because you have been living like this for so long. However, its important to see what you can do to unlearn these traits so that a man can find your more desirable. However, you can simply do nothing, and I can almost guarantee that you will never find a man that will want to be together with you forever. 

I think that its fair to say that feminism has destroyed millions of romantic relationships. God never intended for men and women to be equal.  He intended the man to be the leader in the relationship and for the woman to be submissive to him. Just read the Holy Bible and you will see this for yourself. Even Jesus chose 12 male apostles. There is a reason for this.  It is the way that God wanted it.

The feminist movement is anti-God. It is teaching women how to not be submissive to a man.  However, this is destroying relationships.  I do not believe that we can go back in time and change things at this point. I believe that feminism is here to stay. However, you do not have to follow feminism. Spend some time reading the Holy Bible and asking God how you can do things his way.  When we follow God and do things his way, he gives us what we need.  When we go against God, nothing ever works out for us.

Now that you have some pointers, I hope that you can use this advice. Please see that I have a lot of experience in this area and know what works in love. Know that I have been married for over 20 years and have a happy marriage. Yes, I am a submissive woman and love my husband. He loves me to and respects me. I know the boundaries of what it is to be a woman today.  I studied the Bible and know what works and what does not.

I am happy to say that I am not a feminist nor believe in feminist ways.  I only see that feminism is destroying a woman’s chances at love and men do not like feminism. I wish that more woman could see the light.  Therefore, I wrote this article. I am tired of seeing depressed and heartbroken 40-year-old women.  I hear the cries of the women that write to me and I can tell you that doing things God’s way is the only way to finding true love that will last forever.

At What Age Is It Harder to Find Love?

If you’re looking for love, the older you get, the harder it is. Your heart and your mind are not the same, so you may find it more difficult to find the right match. While men are more likely to be taken with looks and charisma, women are a little more elusive after the age of 45. If you’re over forty, however, you might have an easier time finding the right match.

There are many reasons why it’s harder to find love later in life, and one of the main reasons is the number of failed relationships. People over 50 have probably been married a few times and been in relationship for years. They may not be as open to the idea of falling in love as they were in their 20s. Their hearts have built walls of protection, and they may no longer be ready for a new relationship.

In some areas, the odds are better than others, especially in the South. If you’re 40 and single, you’ll find it much easier to meet men or women. The biggest challenge is knowing what to look for in a partner. Luckily, there are many ways to find love once you reach that milestone. Just remember that there are many resources that will help you find someone worth spending your time with.

It’s also harder to find a mate after a decade of dating. After college, many people have had several relationships and been married more than once. As a result, they may have a different view of love than they did in their early 20s, and they may have a higher number of heartbreaks. In other words, they’re no longer so open to finding a life partner.

In general, falling in love becomes more difficult when you’ve been in a relationship for longer. But this is not true for everyone. Even those who have been in a relationship for over a decade may have problems with falling in love later on. Those issues may have to be resolved before finding love. In this case, it’s best to get help from a therapist. If you’ve had a failed relationship, your past could be holding you back.

When you’re older, it’s harder to find love. Most of us have been married and divorced multiple times, or we’ve been in relationships for years. It is possible to find love in your fifties or even after your 50s. So, you can still fall in a relationship and be happy with it. But at what age is it harder to find love? A lot depends on your expectations.

You may have been in a relationship for years, but you’re now too old to be in a relationship. That doesn’t mean you’ll never find love. It’s simply a question of finding the right partner for yourself. A relationship can last for a lifetime, or for a long time. That’s why a healthy attitude is necessary before entering a romantic relationship.

You may be able to find a partner who shares your values and interests. If you’re single, don’t worry. Most of us have been married at some point. Despite our desire to find love, we’ve also been in a relationship with a person who’s already married. This means that it’s more difficult to find a partner when you’re older. But this doesn’t mean that it’s impossible – you’re just more likely to be alone and more likely to have a better chance of finding a partner.

After you reach middle age, it’s more difficult to find love. Perhaps you’ve been married many times and experienced a long-term relationship. Your thoughts on love are different, and you might have a harder time finding the right partner. That doesn’t mean it’s impossible. You just need to know your options and make sure you’re looking in the right direction. There are a lot of great online dating sites that have made finding love easier.

What Do 40 Year Old Women Want in a Relationship?

What do 40 year old women want in a relationship? While you might think that settling down with someone who is still in her early 20s is the norm, this is not necessarily true. Despite your age difference, it is possible to make a woman feel younger by being physically engaged with her and pursuing sexual activities. However, you shouldn’t assume that all she wants in a relationship is carnal pleasure. A mature woman may be more interested in a man with more sexual assets.

Most mature women are looking for a man who understands their life and is able to be in control of it. She’ll likely prefer a man who shares her values and is as mature as she is. Men who are willing to put themselves in the position of a father or grandfather will be more desirable to a woman in her forties. You should also be prepared for the fact that your woman will probably be busy with her children.

When you meet a woman in her 40s, be aware of her age and lifestyle. A woman in her 40s will be more mature and will not be as scared of child-bearing as a younger woman is. In addition to being more mature, a woman in her 40s will be less hesitant to talk about children than a woman in her 20s or 30s.

When it comes to a woman’s age, you have to remember that this age is an important factor. She has more money and is self-sufficient. She is no longer a young girl who needs to be dated by a younger man. As a result, she’s looking for a relationship that will last. In other words, you should consider what a woman in her 40s wants in a relationship.

As a man, you need to understand that women over 40 are not into games. They are serious about settling down with a partner. They’ve been married or divorced before and know what they’re looking for in a relationship. She will have learned that the same is true for men. You’ll need to understand her strengths and weaknesses and be able to communicate with her in an intelligent way.

The first rule in dating a woman in her 40s is to have a realistic expectation of her relationship. She’ll be happy if you can keep your expectations realistic and don’t make her feel anxious. A woman in her 40s will be more likely to want to get a better man if you are open with her about your goals. So be prepared to make some sacrifices, but know that your partner wants to find the right partner.

When it comes to dating, a woman in her 40s is more likely to be a mother than a wife. If you’re not the type of man who wants to be a single mom, a woman in her 40s might be more open to you and other men. Likewise, you can also show her that you’re a great daddy, which will increase her chances of being successful in your relationship.

It’s important for men to keep in mind that a woman in her 40s has a full and interesting life. She may have previously been married, but now she’s looking for a new partner. She might also have a difficult past. A woman in her 40s has realistic expectations. It’s important to be patient and respectful in your quest to find a woman in her 40s.

She might have a lot of friends and have a child of her own, but she has no interest in having one. In addition, she has a mortgage, a career, and her own social life. You shouldn’t be trying to change her entire life or be the one who raises her kids. Instead, she’ll be happy to share her time and space with you, and she’ll be happier with a man who is more responsible.

Why is it Harder to Find Love As You Get Old?

Many people ask, “Why is it harder to find love as you get old?” The answer is that your romantic preferences change as you get older. This is not surprising, as you become less flexible as you get older, which makes it much more difficult to make compromises and adapt to someone else’s needs. If you are single, this may be one of the reasons why it’s so hard to find love as you grow older.

One of the biggest reasons for this is that you have less energy as you get older. You don’t know how to dance to the music at a club, and you’re not as flexible. Also, you’re less tolerant of being in relationships with people who don’t respect you for who you are. As a result, you’re more likely to settle for someone who’s easy to compromise with and doesn’t put too much pressure on themselves.

The biggest reason why it’s harder to find love as you get older is that you become self-conscious. As you grow older, you become more self-aware and less interested in dating people with whom you disagree. Eventually, you won’t be looking for someone who won’t compromise with you and let you be yourself. You’ll start to have a more open mind and be more accepting of yourself.

Your confidence and self-esteem also play a huge role in your ability to find love. Many people have trouble with dating because of problems with their self-esteem. Often, these problems began in early childhood and have lasting impact on their lives. If you’re a person who doesn’t believe in yourself, you might have a self-esteem problem. If you have low self-esteem, chances are that you won’t find love.

Your age is a major factor in finding love. While you may think you’re too old for love, you’ve got plenty of time to grow and learn. Your confidence and self-esteem will only increase with experience. You’ll also be more willing to make hard decisions and compromises. This is a good thing. It’s the only way to ensure that you’re happy and content in life.

Another big reason for dating is age. As you get older, you realize that you are not a teenager anymore. You’re more confident and mature. You’re less interested in making assumptions and trying to make compromises. You’re also more tolerant of people who are different from you. However, you should not be afraid to be single if you’re not ready to commit. This could make you look old and feel sexy.

As we age, we tend to become more mature. We develop our self-esteem and learn to accept ourselves and our limitations. As we grow older, we become more self-reliant and confident, and our tolerance for games is higher. The same goes for relationships. If you’ve had a bad experience with someone and are unsure of yourself, it’s time to stop it. This is an important step to take.

As you age, you’ll become more confident and mature, which makes it easier to date. You’ll be able to make more compromises, which will make it easier to find love. Moreover, your age will change the way you value yourself. You’ll be more self-aware, more self-confident, and more loving. Your dating life will change as you age.

The common misconception that age makes it harder to find love is based on myths that young people are more attractive than their elders. In reality, you’ll have more self-acceptance as you age, and you’ll be able to be more realistic with yourself. And you’ll be less prone to make assumptions when it comes to your romantic life. Aside from that, you’ll also be more likely to make more mistakes – and that’s the main reason why you’re single.

Can a Woman Find Love After 40?

Looking for love after 40 is a challenge that women often face. While dating is easier for women than it is for men, the stigma of being single in this age group persists. While many people are attracted to women their age, it can be difficult for women to find someone they feel comfortable with. There are many things to consider, however, and one of them could be the key to finding love. A woman’s age should never be a limiting factor in her search.

There are many factors that can play a role in finding love, including age, race, and social standing. There are also other factors that can affect a woman’s chances of finding love after 40, such as her family background and the distance between her and the person she’s interested in. A woman should be realistic about her physical and mental state, and she should be patient while she searches. A woman’s age should not be a barrier when looking for love. If a woman’s physical appearance doesn’t matter, her mind will.

As a woman, it’s very important to remember that she can still find love after forty if she wants it. But in the meantime, she shouldn’t give up hope! In fact, she should look forward to dating with a partner who is compatible with her interests. If she is not looking for a long-term relationship, she should pursue a friendship with a man her age. If the woman has children, she should focus on finding a partner who will take care of her children, and vice versa.

When it comes to dating after 40, the chances are better than ever. You can meet new people, decide what you want in a relationship, and be selective. Taking the time to date after forty will help you overcome these issues. Unlike dating when you are young, dating after 40 can make you feel better and happier. You’ll also have more time to enjoy yourself and your newfound independence. You’ll be able to spend quality time with your partner.

It’s not hard to find love after 40 if you are willing to put in the work. But if you don’t want to date a man her age, consider dating after 40 with a friend of the same age. It’s not easy to find a man who shares your values. The same goes for a man. You need to make sure the other person is compatible. If you can’t get along with him, it’s a sign that he or she is not right for you.

Being single after 40 is not an easy thing to do. You may be comparing yourself with younger and more married friends. But if you don’t feel comfortable dating a man after forty, try dating with someone who shares your values. After all, she will be able to trust you more. You’re a good match for her. If she’s happy with her partner, she’ll be happy.

When dating after 40, women have more time to meet new people and decide what they want in a relationship. It’s important to be selective. If you’re dating a man who’s older than you, it will be harder to convince him that you’re compatible with him. After all, the best person is one who understands you. And she’ll be happy to know that you’re compatible with him.

While dating is easier for women after 40, women should be careful not to compare themselves to their younger and married friends. This is a common mistake for women. In fact, a man who is right for a woman will not notice crow’s feet and won’t notice wrinkles. In addition, it’s important not to overdo it. Overdating can hinder a woman’s ability to find love after 40.

If you’re not dating anyone after 40, you might want to consider dating with a distant relative. It’s not uncommon for a woman to feel hopeless after she turns forty. After all, she hasn’t found her soul mate, but she can still fall in love after her forties. This is the perfect time to start a new life with a new love. You’ll be surprised by how much older she is, and the possibilities are endless.