Should You Date A Man That Is In Jail?

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It is hard to find love these days.  Dating a man that is in jail, may seem like the best alternative then being alone. Women that date men in jail often feel secure knowing that he is not going to be out with other women.

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Are Men In Jail Safe?

If he is in jail, it can be a safe relationship.  At least 50% of men that come out of jail turn out to be repeat offenders. This means that if you are dating a man that is known to be violent, he will most likely be violent with you when he gets out of jail. At some point, you are going to have to face the fact that you are dealing with someone that may not be what you had hoped for.

Men in jail are often wanting to have a romantic relationship with someone because they are lonely. Most men in jail will tell you that you are special to them and that they desire to be with nobody else. They may promise you that once they get released from prison, the two of you are going to start a happy life together.

This may or may not happen when he gets out. It is hard to say what a man in jail is going to do once he is let out on the streets. He will be on his best behavior while he is jail because he does not have access to the outside world. He may even want you to believe that he wants to be close to you because he wants you to deposit money into the commissary so that he can get food. 

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What If He Went To Jail After You Were Together?

If you started dating him before he went to jail, it is okay to keep on dating him. However, you need to understand that he is who he is.  He may promise you that when he gets out of jail, he will become an entirely new person. 

However, history often proves that people do not change. Unless they have a religious conversion, people often want to remain who they are. While they are locked up behind bars, they must listen to a prison system. He must be on his best behavior.

If he is not on his best behavior, he can get into trouble in prison. It is okay to tell him that you love him. However, know that when he gets out of jail, he may be the same person that he was before he went in. In some cases, he will be worse. 

What If No Other Man Wants You In The Free World?

Finding a man to date is hard in today’s complex dating world. You may find that men often come and go in your life. One minute they want you and the next, they are long gone. 

Dating a man in prison often seems appealing because he will make you feel special. He will always call you when he gets time to call.  When you talk to him, he may say that you are the best thing to happen to him since Wonder Bread was invented. However, you may not get the truth until he is out of jail. It is easy for him to tell you how special you are to him when he is behind bars. 

What Will Your Family And Friends Say About Your Relationship?

Your family and friends will most likely not be supportive of your relationship. Most family members are not fond of dating someone in prison.  They may tell you that he is just trying to use you. They might be right.

You also must put into consideration that he may never be able to get a job when he gets out if he is a convicted felon.  Are you prepared to take care of him for the rest of his life? 

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Will He Be Good To You When He Gets Out of Jail?

You may not know it now, but your family may not attend your wedding because they feel that you are wasting your time on him.  You may find that your family and friends are rather harsh on him because they do not believe in giving people second chances.

It is important for you to learn as much as you can about him. It is important to ask yourself what you are willing to accept and not accept. You may find out that this was not his first offense. Perhaps he is a career criminal.  If your family finds out about this, they may not even let him into their home.

Are You Prepared To Be The Sole Provider For Your Family?

It is a fact that men that have done time in jail often do not come out as better people.  Often, they go back to committing crimes and ending up back in jail. If your man is in jail for dealing drugs, he will most likely go back to dealing drugs again.  You need to prepare yourself for him leading the same life as he once did. 

Will He Cheat On You Once He Gets Out of Jail?

It is a myth to think that you are 100% safe from him cheating on you when he gets out of jail. In your mind, you may think that he loves you and owes you because you took care of him while he was in jail. He may have sworn to you that he will never cheat on you with another woman.  However, he has never been tested outside of jail. You may not know it now, but he may feel that he must make up for lost time when he gets out. He may spend more time in the strip club with other men rather than spending time with you at home.  He may see his release as being party time.  Can you handle that?  What will you do if you start finding girls numbers on his phone?  What if you are the person paying for his phone? 

How Will You Deal With His Friends And Family?

Perhaps his friends and family will not like you.  You may think that its an automatic liking because you took care of him while he was locked away. However, what if you find out that they cannot stand you?  What do you do? Your perfect relationship may suddenly end because his mother does not like you. 

You may meet his friends and family members and find out that several people in his family have a criminal record.  You need to prepare yourself for anything that may come your way. It is important for you to think about what you want to achieve in life. You must feel certain about what is going to work for you. 

How to Let Him Know What Your Needs Are

He needs to understand who you are as a person as well.  You may want to tell him how many relationships you were involved in before you decided to talk to him.  It is important to understand that you have the power to make him see you for who you are. 

If you have ever been hurt by love, it is important for him to know that.  Allow him to see the different sides of you if you plan on spending your life with him.  Do not portray yourself to be something that you are not.  When he gets out of jail, he will know that you were not being truthful with him. It is important for him to see that you have many sides to you.  Sometimes he will accept your sides and at other times, he will not. It can be hard at times to tell him who you are as a person. Let him see that you are going to stand by his side no matter what.

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Is He Going To Be True To You When He is Out?

It is important for him to see that you are the kind of person that likes to give of yourself. He needs to see that the bonding between the two of you can keep on growing if he puts his mind to it. 

It is important to focus on your own needs first before his. After all, you are going to have to take care of yourself and possibly him when he gets out.  Try to find out as much as you possibly can about the guy.  Check on social media to see if someone else is chatting to him.  Let him see what your goals are. 

Talk to him about what you believe he needs to know about your career and hobbies.  You need to see how compatible you are.

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I have been writing horoscopes since I was in high school. I enjoy learning about astrology and teaching it as well. I am a believer in love and soulmates. I find that people often enjoy learning about psychics as well. My goal is to write articles that are helping for people.

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